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Being a blogger you open yourself up to the world and sometimes you fail and sometimes you succeed at the moment im sitting in the failing side of life. Its one of the most difficult things any one is in as at the moment I have been hounded by negative comments.

This morning I sent a friend a message to say im going to write this post but I didn’t tell her my motivation. I will not name names but I received the most disgusting message over my Facebook Page about how my blog is not good enough for whats out there. It broke my heart to a point I was close to cancelling my blog and to be honest im still thinking about it.

The message read:

Hi yourdailyjay

I have watched you over social media and to be honest I am disgusted at the fact you can call yourself a blogger because you not, what you are is a fat washed up girl trying to be something you not. You don’t have the look and your probably don’t have friends trust me I don’t think you have a boyfriend.

So my suggestion since you always asking for some is to get off the blogger vibe, pack for shit up and get another hobby maybe try hitting the gym or better yet fix your face.

Im not trying to be mean.Im trying to help you out.

Save yourself now.

I read the message while I was waiting for my laptop to start at work, it broke my heart. I have been wondering if I need to respond to that message or should I just leave it. But im doing this post that I have read your message and I will make you feel good with a tiny feature.

Heres my response

Hi there

Thank you for your message

The sad part is that I know you, My blog was never supposed to be the birth place of confrontation but it is supposed to be a hub for Cape Towns best talent.

I know im not thin, blemish free but I am riding my own wave, there are people who read my blog with all my mistakes and typos which is something I am changing or trying to change. I was never amazing at English to be honest I had a reading problem which was only recognized once I reached High School, so my schooling career was not the easiest.

What you are demonstrating right now is bullying. I will never be perfect ill never live up to your standards of life but im living up to my dreams.

Like you suggested something this my suggestion to you instead sending me a message. Take in your surroundings and enjoy life. Its spring start a new life .

I would love to meet you one day for a coffee and discuss my ultimate goal with YourDailyJay.

Have a good week

Xx

I am proud to be a struggle blogger and I may struggle now but im always trying to better myself.im proud of where i am today with my blog and to those who have been supporting me from the start.

Thank you

I MAY NOT BE PERFECT BUT IM GETTING THERE.

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